End of Life Doula & Home Funeral Guide
Holistic, non-medical support for the dying and their loved ones
Hi, I'm Summer. I'm an end-of-life doula living in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina.
I offer bedside vigil for the dying and relief for their weary caretakers. I also sit with people in uncertainty, in the last stretch of a lifetime, making space for hard questions, deep sadness, and all the quiet joys and unexpected wonders that can still unfold. My approach is practical, grounded, and built on care. I believe in showing up, in making beauty where we can, and in staying open to the mystery.
My path here has been shaped by the plant world and personal loss. I've been steeped in self-study of plant medicine for over a decade, and my formal herbal education began at the Self-Heal School of Herbal Studies in San Diego in 2016. Not long after, in May of 2017, my life was profoundly changed when both of my parents and my dear father-in-law all died within the short span of ten weeks. My walk with plant medicine has been deeply shaped by that time, and I've been learning ever since how to nourish my community in the ways that supported me most through grief. That grief is part of what brought me, eventually, to this work.
I began exploring home funeral education in late 2022 through volunteer work with the Home Funeral Alliance, and the following year I started offering end-of-life support as a volunteer death doula with Emberlight: The Center for Conscious Living & Dying in Swannanoa, NC, where I also completed end-of-life direct care training. I hold End of Life Doula and After Death Care Educator proficiency badges through the National End-of-Life Doula Alliance (NEDA), and am a graduate of the End of Life Doula Specialist Program through International Doula Life Movement. I see this as a path of lifelong learning, continually listening, growing, and finding new ways to serve with compassion and integrity.
My community offerings include non-medical end-of-life care, home funeral guidance, and support for families who want to bring more presence, meaning, and agency to the dying process. I help people navigate their options and tend to death in a way that feels aligned with their values, culture, and community.
My hope is to help you remember what already lives in you. To guide you toward the awareness that you — we — already know how to care for each other, and to gently light the way. This is community deathcare. It isn't work meant to live behind closed doors. It belongs to all of us.
If you're looking for someone to walk alongside you or someone you love, or you want to learn what it means to tend your own deathcare ecosystem, I'm glad you found your way here.
Welcome.
Deathcare Services
Free Consultation
Finding the right fit for your journey is so important. I offer a free 60-90 minute consultation so we can talk through your needs, answer questions, and see if I’m the right doula for you and your family.
Companionship & Vigil
Gentle presence for the dying person.
This might include silent companionship, life review & memory keeping, story sharing, gentle touch, creating a comforting & sacred space.
Legacy Project Support
Legacy projects can take many forms and are inspired by the dying person’s own life and interests. They might include creating a collage or scrapbook, curating a playlist, gathering favorite recipes, writing down values and life lessons to share with others, or planning parts—or all—of one’s own funeral.
Caregiver Respite Visits
Gentle companionship and support in your absence, ensuring the person you're caretaking is not alone while you take time to rest, tend to personal needs, or simply take a breath.
Support with practical tasks such as errand running, organization, appointment scheduling and transportation are also available.
End of Life Planning Support
Education and guidance on caring for the body after death and choices around burial, cremation, embalming, eco-friendly and natural disposition options. We can also explore the type of ceremony or memorial that feels most meaningful to you and the ways you’d like to be honored and remembered.
Home Funeral Guidance
Support in planning after-death care at home. Guidance on ritual baths, anointing, lying in honor, and home funeral options.
Available as part of a multi-hour doula package, or as a stand alone offering.
Rates & Flexible Support Plans
Individual visits are offered at $40/hr.
Every family’s journey is unique. If you’d benefit most from ongoing support, I offer customizable bundles of care at a reduced rate from my regular hourly fee.
These plans can include any combination of my services and can be adjusted as needs change over time.
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